All the advice, self-help books, and articles in the world won't help if you don't get out there and practice approaching and meeting beautiful women. This is the part most men find an excuse not to go out and practice going after the women they want. It is the same as a man learning about how to fly a plane through books and training videos, but never going out and trying to actually physically fly a plane. The more you go out and try to talk to women, the easier it will be. It is scary at first. It is out of your comfort zone. But it is no comfort to see beautiful everywhere you turn and not have the courage to pursue them.