I never liked the advice of just being oneself to attract women. It all depends. If you have the type of personality that easily attracts women, then being yourself is okay. But if you have all the traits push women away, then being yourself is not okay. No one is suggesting to be something that you're not, but you must incoporate attractive traits with your own unique personality. The best way to do this is the watch those who are good at attracting women, and emulate them. For example, every ladykiller in every movie that you ever seen is not a smiling dope. They do smile, but with a mischievious smirk. The don't react to circumstances around them. The react they way they want to. They don't fidget, stutter or have shifty eyes. These are just a couple of examples of certain things to practice when you want to attract beautiful women. Study the best, then be the best.